1 Peter: Re-imagined for 2020 - May 24

The words of 1 Peter 4:12-14, 5:6-11, appointed as the Epistle reading for Sunday, May 24, are a gift of inspiration and assurance for us - especially for this time of pandemic. The letter was written to Christian churches in modern-day Turkey during the first century. As an experiment in sharing the Good News, I re-imagined this letter through the lens of the 21st century and the circumstances that envelop our world today. Perhaps this excerpt from 1 Peter in 2020 would read something like this:

My friends for whom I love as only God loves,

Around us strange things are happening. They feel like tests and temptations, don’t they? Try doing this – as you can, take comfort, and even joy, knowing that the sacrifices you are experiencing are a way of sharing space with Jesus Christ. When you see glimpses of Jesus revealed now, know that his glory is unchanging – rejoice in those “God-winks”!

When people challenge you in a myriad of ways – questions of wearing a mask (or not) in the public space; resuming worship in-person or continuing online; choice to go ahead for a summer jaunt to the beaches of Miami or Fort Lauderdale, etc. — take a moment -- make space for a deep breath through your whole being. The Holy Spirit is resting upon you and bringing you refreshment. It is not upon your shoulders to respond.

In all the difficulties that surround you, get some perspective. Remember how strong and mighty God is. Begin with that humble posture, and God will lift you up at the right time…in God’s time. It’s hard to wait, unsure what tomorrow looks like. I know. Put your distractions and anxieties on God – entrust those concerns to the Lord, for you are one of the sheep in God’s flock, remember? You, too, are cared for, precious one.

Keep your head clear, be vigilant. Hard times are still ahead, and temptations are at large, swirling around you. Evil looks to devour that which is good, so when you feel swayed or crumbling, resist – stand firm. You are not alone. You have the solidarity of every other child of God around the world in this time of hardship and pain. So, lean upon your belief in God, which is solid.

And as you hold on…as you endure, God’s grace will surround you. God’s grace will bring healing. God’s grace will support you. God’s grace will make you strong. And God’s grace will settle your anxious heart. For, though this time is hard, God continues to have this promise to which you are invited: eternal glory in Christ. Our God reigns over all days – good, bad and ugly. Truly.

With love, and God’s peace,

Your family in suffering and sacrifice.

—+—

As our forebears, the early Christians, endured struggles two thousand years ago, we, too, can and will persist in our faith in the midst of our hardships and fear today. Friends, may our hearts remain tender in the strange days ahead…even when we are scared, hurt, or in disagreement. Let us look to the assurance and care that we hear in the gospel and in the letter from 1st Peter. We continue to remain open in God’s love as the one Body of Christ.

Alleluia!
— Katherine+

God’s steadfast love endures forever - May 23

Today’s Readings:  Psalm 136; Num. 11:16-17,24-29; Eph. 2:11-22; Matt. 7:28-8:4

I saw this meme recently: “I told my suitcases that there will be no vacation this year. Now I am dealing with emotional baggage.”

Emotional baggage. Why do we carry around hurts that drag us down and plague our dreams? Are we setting ourselves up for being breathless from lugging our burdens from place to place? I wonder…is a reason we persistently tote emotional baggage because our lives are entwined in the stories around them? The tales of our lived experiences, whether joy-filled or painful, define the points along the line of our existence. Ignoring an event which causes us heartache does not make it go away.

However, we can work toward reconciliation, figuring out how to incorporate our wounds in a way that fits with our plans for continued living. This is a daily process done with God’s help, and sometimes with the guidance of professionals. What are we to do when the previously reconciled baggage keeps tripping us up – especially in a pandemic? Even when we have good structures in place for coping with what (and who) ails us, we get tired and overloaded. Parts of our history overwhelm us, like waves welling up and crashing down. Pain flares up again. Our defenses are down. We lash out. We lapse. We lose the solid footing beneath us.

How can we shore up our foundation, when so much around us feels tenuous? I cannot answer for every aspect for life; I can raise one avenue to ponder. Psalm 136 has a message repeated in every verse: God’s steadfast love endures forever. In spite of every aspect of the painful history of the Israelites, God’s steadfast love endures forever. The same is for your story and mine: God’s steadfast love and mercy endure. No matter what. Let that repetition create a sense of spiritual grounding and calm in your life today.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What emotional baggage is bothering you most today?

• What image or word helps you reconnect to yourself, God, and others?

Daily Challenge

Practice a mode of centering that brings you grounding: meditative breathing or prayer, going for a walk, playing music, reflecting on scripture or written note with a message like, “I love you!”. Then, inwardly digest that you are worthy, and God’s steadfast love for you endures forever.

Hannah prayed and said, ‘My heart exults in the Lord' - May 22

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 85, 86; PM Psalm 91, 92, 1 Sam. 2:1-10; Eph. 2:1-10; Matt. 7:22-27

There are many sacrifices people in our midst are making during this time. Perhaps you know of people sequestered from their family and friends, because their job calls them to be repeatedly exposed to COVID-19. Some are working long hours, putting a strain on bodies, minds, and relationships. Due to caregiver responsibilities for children or aging parents, others have had to quit working, or shift to working late at night after others have gone to bed. There are the threshold moments that are lost – in-person celebrations of new births, graduation ceremonies, and meaningful days like anniversaries and birthdays. Those living alone are hungering for personal interactions and yet choose to remain physically separate, but they are slipping into confusion or disorientation. I bet you can think of others, too.

In the biblical context, sacrifice often means that an animal was slaughtered and burned on the altar as an offering to God – a first-fruits gift, or an act of repentance, or upon making a prayer to God. As I reflect on what sacrifice looks like today, we offer our bodies in different ways – and unless we are firefighters or other first responders, we are not putting ourselves into a physical fire. However, I can see where we do subject ourselves to metaphorical fires, as we enter difficult situations, surrendering part of ourselves for the sake of someone else. Why do we make these sacrifices day after day, and how are we being molded through this time?

In the reading from 1 Samuel today, we read the ancient “Song of Hannah”. She has made a great sacrifice, by giving her young son, Samuel, to the temple priest Eli. You see, for many years Hannah was unable to have children. She vowed to God that if he would help her conceive, she would offer the boy child into the service of the Lord. Hannah kept her word and upon leaving him at the temple with Eli, she offered the poem we know as the Song of Hannah. I can imagine tears of joy and sadness flowing down her cheeks as she praised God for God’s holiness, faithfulness, power, and knowledge. Her dedication to God was so great that she was willing to lend her child to the work of the Lord.

Please don’t misunderstand me – I am not asking you to drop off your kids as the stoop of Saint Stephen’s. Or at my house. Please – two children are enough in our home! And while some moments I want to get significant distance from my kids, I cannot imagine doing what Hannah did. Yet, what I do hear stirring in this Song of Hannah is a call to rejoice to God, even in the midst of a difficult situation. While our feet are on ground that is painful and brings us anxiety, before reacting further, let us center ourselves first by looking up to God. Hannah can teach us this rhythm.

Friends, my prayers are with you as you make sacrifices for your family and those around you. This is not an easy time. If life feels like it is getting too hard and the costs are mounting, reach out. Call the church. Call a friend. You are not alone. Hannah wasn't, and neither are you.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What have you had to give up during COVID-19?

• For whom do you make sacrifices?

Daily Challenge

Reread the Song of Hannah (1 Samuel 2:1-10). Note what word stands out to you. Take a walk and reflect on how you are called to serve the Lord today.

There was more than one doubting disciple! - May 21

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalms 8, 47; PM Psalms 24, 96; Dan. 7:9-14; Heb. 2:5-18; Matt. 28:16-20

Today is the Feast of the Ascension, when we remember the day Jesus was lifted up into the air until his disciples could no longer see him. In the final verses of Matthew, we read the resurrected Jesus’ last-minute reminders to his friends and students. He issues the Great Commission, charging them to disciple all people; baptize in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit; and, teach everyone of the Torah and God’s love. Jesus gives these directions to all 11 disciples.

What strikes me today is a detail of group dynamics – the disciples are not of one mind! The narrator shares that they gathered at the mountain, bowed as servants to Jesus, and some doubted. After experiencing so much – from Jesus’ ministry and miracles, to time spent with the resurrected Jesus in multiple settings – some are still wavering. Note that the word “some” is plural; more than one disciple has doubt. What is it that they question? His divinity as the Son of God? Whether he truly is risen from the dead? Something else?

I think of Jesus as a pretty intuitive guy. Does he sense the uncertainty? And if so, does that cause him concern? We read in Hebrews that Jesus becomes “like his brothers [and sisters] in every respect so that he might be a merciful and faithful high priest”. By joining in the beauty and adventure of our full humanity, Jesus shares the feelings, thoughts, and experiences of his friends and followers. Because of his divinity, he loves them as God his Father loves. As such, Jesus is full of mercy, faith, and empathy. Perhaps he could even be called an empath, keenly able to understand and share the feelings of others. Grounded in God’s love, Jesus sees that all 11 disciples are equipped to raise up others to be baptized into life with him, in spite of any doubt or wavering. He knows they can rise to the occasion.

As we live into the call of being disciples of Christ each and every day, let us do so with empathy and love. Doubt does not nullify faith in God, and differences do not disqualify us from participating in the Great Commission. With God’s help, we can rise to the occasion, too.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What are your questions and doubts about Jesus?

• What obstacles prevent you from showing mercy or having empathy?

Daily Challenge

Think about a time when, in a group, you have held a different perspective than others. How did others in the group respond when learning of your position? Journal about how you grew from that experience. For any feelings of pain or regret, pray for God’s healing and reconciliation.

Testing...testing...is this thing on? - May 20

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 119:97-120; PM Psalms 81, 82, Lev. 26:27-42; Eph. 1:1-10; Matt. 22:41-46

Saint Stephen’s is trying new technologies while we are physically dispersed. We’ve adopted the mindset that we are making small experiments. Some work. Some don’t. We learn through testing them! The application ZOOM crashed on Sunday morning around the world, affecting the video-streamed Children’s Chapel lesson Jennifer Jones and others had planned. This week John and I have been broadcasting with some different tools. There has been a mix of success and frustration. I spent a couple of minutes Tuesday afternoon broadcasting footage of me with a quizzical expression, a few giggles, and mutterings of “I don’t know…Is it working?” It was a test, and it sort of worked. Tests point to our limits: where we are succeeding and where our opportunities for improvement remain.

We find Jesus with the Pharisees today in the reading from Matthew. Both the Sadducees and Pharisees have been testing Jesus. They have been trying to trip up and trick him, so that they can humiliate and discredit him. What happens next is a bit of “just desserts”. Those testing through intellect have the tables turned upon them; Jesus volleys a question back their way and they are stumped, for “no one was able to give him an answer, nor from that day did anyone dare to ask him any more questions.”

Ultimately, Jesus holds up the truth that, while questions and curiosity are welcome, the Pharisees cannot trick or out-reason God. This is a hard truth we get to mull over, too… especially when our faith in God is tested. We may try to trick ourselves or others, or we may rationalize our choices, but our God is the God of truth. God calls us to honest inquiry and understanding – rather than a series of “gotchas!”

Maybe living out our Christian faith becomes a series of small experiments, too. We get to test with curiosity where we find our own grounding in God’s blessing and grace. We get to reflect upon the irony that when we are testing a software, colleague, or social limit, we are tested in that exchange, too. So, stay curious and make small experiments – not to be right, but to learn more, about God, those around you, and yourself.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What questions do you have for Jesus?

• Who is someone who tests you? Who do you test?

Daily Challenge

Think of an experiment or something new you’ve done lately. What worked? What didn’t? Write down what you learned about yourself. Take a moment to give thanks to God for your growth and awareness.

Needing God’s grace - May 19

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 78:1-39; PM Psalm 78:40-72, Lev. 26:1-20; 1 Tim. 2:1-6; Matt. 13:18-23

During the Easter season, we celebrate the resurrection and ascension of Jesus and the renewal of our baptismal promise. The fabrics and flowers are white, and we say lots of alleluias. We (generally) omit the Confession of Sin. And yet, we still face situations that bring us regret. We still have the propensity to sin - lying, lashing out, and losing tempers. Or, is my household the only one in this situation?

I got really angry the other day; I lost my cool at one of my kids. Today’s psalm felt like antiseptic dribbling on a wound as I read the words, “many times he [God] held back his anger and did not permit his wrath to be roused. For he remembered that they were but flesh.” It stirred in me the need to confess: I do not always hold back my anger. I forget that my loved ones are human, and I expect them to be perfect. If I continue being honest, I hold myself to a similar standard of flawlessness, and yet, God somehow does not strike me down with lightning or plague when I fall short in my humanity.

How does that theology jive with Leviticus? Follow God’s law and you will flourish: “the trees of the field shall yield their fruit.” Break a statute and your fate is bleak: “I will bring terror on you; consumption and fever that waste the eyes and cause life to pine away.” Harsh, huh?

But that’s not the end. The gift of Jesus’ ministry and God’s redemption of the world through the Risen Son reveals that we can honor the structure set forth in the law and the healing grace of our God. We are called to live into the foundational statutes that order our hearts and lives: love God and love one another. Rather than the terminus of continual punishment seven times over for our sins, we are invited again and again to repent and be reconciled - turning away from those actions that separate us from God and living into the love that unites us as the Body of Christ.

Perhaps this prayer to confess your need for God’s healing grace can bring you peace and restoration in a time of trial and weakness:

Compassionate God, we confess our weaknesses and our need for your strengthening touch.

We confess that some illnesses stem from our own fault, while others are beyond our control.

We turn to you, source of life, and ask in the name of our Savior Jesus Christ for the gifts of true healing and life in you. Amen.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• How does the message of Leviticus match or conflict with how you see God?

• What help do you need to feel from God today?

Daily Challenge

Sit with and pray the Confession of Need.

A sensory experience in sowing seeds - May 18

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 80; PM Psalm 77, [79]; Lev. 25:35-55; Col. 1:9-14; Matt. 13:1-16

My family and I recently watched a movie called “Stargirl”. The titular character Stargirl Caraway plays a ukulele and brings a breath of inspiration to a high school in the Arizona desert. During a crescendo, she speaks of the gift that comes from slowing down, rather than living in distraction and fury. She offers the image of an unfurling flower, for seldom someone sits and watches the progression from seed on the ground into a colorful burst in the garden. What would it be like if we were to reflect upon and appreciate the intricate steps that brought the beautiful plant to the point that we behold it? Extrapolated to the people around us, what would such an act of care and attentiveness look like? How would this affect relationships?

In telling the parable of the sower of seeds upon various terrains, Jesus calls his listeners to take note – to pay attention – to consider. While he sits in that boat, I have this image of Jesus holding some sheaths of grain. As he talks, he examines the top where grain kernels are nestled. How would reflecting on those pellets, waiting to be loosed and milled, draw the crowd’s attention to the wonder of that plant’s growth? Hearing of the types of ground, perhaps the people examine the sand beneath their shoes and look to see what surrounds them. How might people hear and see differently? How might they be stirred or restored through such a reflection? Would they marvel at the gift resting at Jesus’ fingertips? Would they accept the gift of God’s love and salvation in Jesus? Can you?

There are times, perhaps like today, when our hearts are dull, our eyes are shut, or our heads are swimming in a myriad of stressors. We just cannot bear to see another hardship. And, while the terrain around us is varied and perilous, we can choose to take a moment to still ourselves and reflect on God’s word through Holy Scripture. Accept Jesus’ invitation to consider God’s message of salvation and flourishing…those seeds will take root and grow, one step at a time.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What parts of your soul’s soil need enrichment today?

• Who or what shakes you up to pay attention and listen in a deeper way?

Daily Challenge

Invite a friend or loved one to share a story that has shaped them into who they are today, including what was hard and what helped them grow more.

Our ordinary life is a playground for our faith - May 16

Today’s Readings: AM Psalm 75, 76; PM Psalm 23, 27; Lev. 23:23–44; 2 Thess. 3:1–18; Matt. 7:13–21

When I lived in West Tennessee, one of the state representatives quoted a portion of today’s readings from the 2nd Letter to the Thessalonians in justifying his vote to remove funding for the Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) better known as food stamps. He quoted what we have read for today: “If you don’t work, you shouldn’t eat.” But context matters. And in this letter, the community of believers is idle because they believed that the Kingdom of God was so near, that tomorrow would look very different than today. Essentially, these people had given up on the day to day way of being because of their belief in the imminent return of Jesus. They didn’t think everything else mattered.

This point of view is intriguing to explore because it reflects a spirituality where God is outside of everyday living. God is far off, and something special will happen one day for us, if we do the right thing or believe that right thing. But the author of the Epistle offers an alternative view: it is in the ordinary, day to day, the laboring and working, that we find meaning and purpose. It is in the ordinary that we find our faith and confidence in God.

If you are reading this, you are doing something this very moment to nurture your own spirituality and faith, so maybe I am writing to the wrong crowd. But I worry that some might adopt a posture, that working on one’s faith will just need to wait until we can gather again in a church building. Now, I am also taking the letter out of context in applying it to our spiritual lives, but the author’s point is still made. We find confidence in the Lord in the ordinariness of our lives. Maybe you are finding more idle time than you would like. Or maybe you are stressed out more than usual. But if God is a part of everything we experience, then there is never a better time than now to explore how we are growing in our life with Christ. May we all learn to see are ordinary life as a playground for living out our faith.

- John+

Questions for Self-Reflection

• How do you see the stories of Scripture reflected in your day to day life? Are their characters from the Bible or events that speak especially to you? Has that changed in the last few months?

Daily Challenge

• Use a daily task to help you grow in your faith. Pick an ordinary chore, like vacuuming or unloading the dishwasher, and use that time to specifically pray for people on your heart and mind.

There is a log in their eye and it wasn't caused by Covid-19 - May 15

Today’s Readings: AM Psalm 106:1–18; PM Psalm 106:19–48; Lev. 23:1–22; 2 Thess. 2:1–17; Matt. 7:1–12

In Wednesday’s reflection, we explored the imagery of eyesight and how when we reframe our vision to see goodness and possibility, we allow our lives to be filled with light. Common sense would lead us to believe that for this to be possible, we would need healthy eyes, or eyes free from obstruction. But as Jesus continues in the Sermon on the Mount in today’s Gospel reading, he draws attention once again to our eyes. Jesus says, “Why do you see the speck in your neighbor’s eye, but do not notice the log in your own eye? Or how can you say to your neighbor, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ while the log is in your own eye?” He is talking to his followers and there is an assumption that their view is obstructed. There is a log in their eye, and it wasn’t caused by Covid-19.

It’s been pretty easy to make some judgments lately. She’s not wearing a mask, or he is running with a group of people, or she posted this crazy story on Facebook, or they are acting so stupid! Or that church over there is opening up. Or our church isn’t! It’s easy to think we know what is best for other people. So, I hear a careful indictment from Jesus to watch our judgment. And maybe an even more helpful reminder that we are all far from perfect as well.

I think it’s helpful to imagine, that to see well, doesn’t mean that we have perfect vision, it only requires a little bit of humility to know that we have obstructions too. Maybe they are blinders that keep us from valuing another position, or at least suspending judgment enough to learn from someone else. Maybe your position is the better one, but a posture of curiosity will go far. And it’s helpful to be reminded, we all have things we need to work on too.

Questions for Self-Reflection

• What are people doing right now that is driving you crazy?

• What are you doing right now that might be upsetting to others?

Daily Challenge 

• Practice suspending judgment and self-reflection. Pay attention today, and when someone does something or says something that upsets you, think of one thing you have done recently that is upsetting to others.

Today's trouble is enough for today! - May 14

Today’s Readings:AM Psalm [70], 71; PM Psalm 74; Lev. 19:26–37; 2 Thess. 1:1–12; Matt. 6:25–34

I have been worrying about tomorrow all day. Not really tomorrow, but the next phase of life in COVID-19. After spending two hours on a conference call with other priests and our Bishop, conversation with our wardens, and drafting a letter to our congregation to be sent today, there has been a lot of worrying about tomorrow. And then I read and hear these words found in the Gospel of Matthew, “So do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring worries of its own. Today’s trouble is enough for today.” I see why Jesus calls himself ‘the Truth’ in John’s Gospel. Today’s trouble is enough for today!

The words in today’s Scripture are meant to be words of hope and encouragement. Jesus says, ‘do not worry about your life.’ These comforting words from the Sermon on the Mount remind people that God provides life. In asking us to consider the lilies of the field, we are invited to look out at the splendor and beauty of creation and see all that God has done and provided. Why then are we worried about what we cannot control when the world is teeming with life, beauty, and possibility?

It dawned on me while resting with this passage, that even when Covid-19 has come and gone, there will be remarkable challenges we will face. Loved ones will still hurt, people will get sick, we will break promises, work too much, rush around too much, and life will go on. And yet God’s grace and goodness will still abound, just as it is today. I wonder if there is a way to learn to reserve our worry for what we have control over or can change, and with everything else, have the faith and confidence that God is loving our world into wholeness. Jesus implies, “strive for the Kingdom and all else shall be well.”

- John+

Questions for Self Reflection:

• What do you worry about that is out of your control? What do you worry about that you can change or influence? Where do you devote most of your energy?

Daily Challenge

• Find a rock or something with a little weight to it. Now pick one of your worries that is out of your control and imagine naming that object for that worry. Carry that object in a pocket or with you for half of today. After noonday prayers, consider letting go of the object. 

Making our eyes healthy requires more than carrots - May 13

Today’s Readings: AM Psalm 72; PM Psalm 119:73-96; Lev. 19:1-18; 1 Thess. 5:12-28; Matt. 6:19-24

I have a group that reads books together on Tuesdays.  Last month we spent our days diving into The Book of Joy by the Dalai Lama and Desmond Tutu.  The premise of the book was learning how to find joy in our life, especially when faced with great adversity, pain, and suffering.  It couldn’t have been better timing for us as a group to read their thoughts as our lives were all becoming more difficult in so many ways. 

One of the key concepts that was presented was the idea of reframing.  To find joy in our lives, we have to learn how to see each situation differently.  One the examples suggested was when you feel envious of your neighbor’s mansion or fancy home, maybe say to yourself, “I am so grateful that I don’t need to clean five bathrooms or mow that giant lawn.” When we can learn to cast a different light on a situation, we can learn to see it from different angles which can then lead to us seeing what we can be grateful for and how we can be satisfied. This is a necessary approach for finding joy when situations become difficult and challenging.

Maybe that is why I am drawn to this passage in Matthew (6:22-23) where Jesus uses the image of a lamp to describe an eye.  If your eye is healthy, the whole body is full of light, and if it is unhealthy, the body is full of darkness.  Jesus could be suggesting that our view of the world and ourselves is dependent on our ability to reframe a situation.  What we see, and how we see it, changes the very nature of how we exist in this world.  It is probably worthy of considerable exploration of what makes our eyes healthy or not, but through my faith, I have come to believe that the core component to living faithfully is to know that we are unconditionally loved by God.  And if we accept this truth, we can extend the same truth to all other people by virtue of being children of God. If we know this truth, we can learn to be who God has called us to be in the face of that which stands against us.  It is about being healthy. Making our eyes healthy requires more than carrots.

What do you need for your eyes to be healthy, to let light shine in your life?  Are their practices or disciplines you can adopt that will allow your whole being to be filled with light?  Or are their things that you need to let go of, or stop doing in order to let the light shine through?

- John+

 Questions for Self-Reflection?

• What have you lost in the last 3 months?  What has challenged you most?  What have you given up that you are most grateful for? 

Daily Challenge

• Pick one event that you feel especially challenged by and practice reframing it.  Name what you are grateful for in the midst of this challenge?

Keep Awake. This is all you need. - May 12

Today’s Readings: AM Psalm 61, 62; PM Psalm 68:1–20(21–23)24–36; Lev. 16:20–34; 1 Thess. 5:1–11; Matt. 6:7–15

In Paul’s Letter to the Thessalonians, he shares to the community that they do not need a letter written to them. Isn’t it ironic: he tells them this in a letter! Letters were how the community was connected and united with each other. Paul, or someone else, would write a letter to a community and that community would read the letter together and their faith would be strengthened, and their worries eased. And this community doesn’t need a letter to be united. Specifically, in chapter 4, they are told as well that they don’t need a letter to learn how to love each other. Today we hear that they only need to keep awake.

I am struggling with how to reopen the church. While I have not felt an overarching push from our community to get us in the pews, the conversations across the country and even our diocese are pushing us to consider how to gather again in the flesh. It is almost as if there is an assumption, that if we can’t be together in person, we are missing out on something. If we can’t sit and sing and drink from the chalice, we cannot be connected. Maybe Paul’s words of encouragement are to us today, and maybe our in-person worship is the equivalent to the New Testament epistle. The larger world thinks we need in-person worship in order to be united.

But Paul says no! “For you yourselves know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night.” Maybe not the best illusion for us to consider, but his point is, God returns when you likely aren’t paying attention, so wake up and be vigilant. The point is, we have made an idol of our worship when we believe that being in person and the sharing of the cup is what unites us. I miss it too, probably as much as most others, but it is our faith that unites us. It is our belief that God is a part of this world, and that God’s goodness is bigger than the mess that we are in. We just need to keep awake. When we do this, we will continue to see God’s reign and glory on the horizon.

- John+

Questions for Self-Reflection

• What do you miss the most about church prior to COVID-19?

• In what ways has your faith grown over the past few months?

Daily Challenge

• Write a letter to yourself naming your spiritual growth during this time and put it away to read later.

It’s easier than finding some ‘he-goats’ - May 11

Today’s Readings:AM Psalm 56, 57, [58]; PM Psalm 64, 65; Lev. 16:1–19; 1 Thess. 4:13–18; Matt. 6:1–6,16–18

The more I read the Scripture, the more obscure it gets. When I lived in the seminary community in Alexandria, Virginia, I practiced the daily routine of worship through Morning Prayer and the readings would eventually always get weird. We would mention something like ‘he-goats.’ (I chuckled when we read this together in Psalm 50 last week.) And now we have moved into Leviticus where we will spend our mornings in the next few weeks. It’s about blood and sacrifices and rules and wanting to make things right. It doesn’t make much sense when we think of our lives today. Aaron has to go and sacrifice animals, what I am assuming from our lesson last week are ‘he-goats,’ and he has to do this after the death of his two sons.

The details get even weirder, but what I think is underneath it all, is an outright obsession with getting right with God. The Israelites looked at everything that happened to them as an expression of God’s reign and so there is this necessity to be in the good graces of God. Their outward and visible life takes on the expression of atonement, of making amends with God and with each other, albeit they do it in ways that don’t make sense to us anymore. (For this I am especially glad because it will be hard enough to clean and disinfect our church grounds in this new reality without goat blood smeared everywhere!)

I say all this because I think we have missed the mark when it comes to atonement. Yes, many people see the fulfillment of our faith through the ultimate sacrifice in Jesus Christ. The problem with this is when it absolves us from taking any responsibility. What I have noticed on social media lately is many of us have become convinced that our responsibility in this world is to right people of their false belief by sharing the facts we have come to believe. Don’t get me wrong, I am bothered with purposeful disinformation that is shared in order to disrupt our common life. But it is almost as if we spend as much energy fixing all others and almost in equally bizarre ways as the Israelites did in atoning for their sin and wrongdoing. Our religious identity is too easily focused on trying to be the most informed, or woke, or righteous.

I certainly don’t want to suggest not being informed and working to discern truth from what we read and learn is wrong. But I do wonder what would happen if we put as much energy or more into being reconciled to each other and to God. Instead of the attacking comment or thought to the person who shared the ridiculous story on your Facebook feed, what would it look like to first approach wholeness in your relationship with that person? Would your response be different? At the very least, it will be easier than finding some ‘he-goats’ so why not try.

- John+

Questions for Self-Reflection

• How do you spend time making things right with God? How about the people in your life who have offended or hurt you?

• What does atonement look like in an online world?

Daily Challenge?

• When someone says something that bothers you this week, remember this question. Try responding from the place of reconciliation as opposed to correcting.

"Lord, you have searched me out and known me" - May 9

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 55; PM Psalms 138, 139:1-17; Exod. 40:18-38; 1 Thess. 4:1-12; Matt. 5:38-48

“Lord, you have searched me out and known me…” The portion of Psalm 139 appointed for today is a visceral, intimate poem of relationship between God and the psalmist. God is ever-present – but not in the way that a younger sibling is always tagging along. Rather, the Lord is faithful, reliable, and proximate. God is also all-knowing – but not in a smarty-pants, superior way. Rather, the Lord is involved in the integral details of who we are and how we are made. Imagery of God’s hand serves as a stabilizing and guiding force along our experience, and this psalm proclaims that news in awe and wonder.

These ancient words of reflection and prayer stand in stark contrast to public health guidelines of physical distancing in 2020, don’t they? How is it that you need to experience God today? In what ways does your faith need stretching? With whom will you share the Good News of the Lord our God, who gets “up close and personal” with us?

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What gives you reassurance of God’s presence?

• Who knows you best?

Daily Challenge

Write the word LORD on a piece of paper. Re-read the words of Psalm 139:1-17 while tracing the letters LORD over and over again. Pay attention to the verses where you felt close to God.

Package from Pearl - May 8

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalms 40, 54; PM Psalm 51; Exod. 34:18-35; 1 Thess. 3:1-13; Matt. 5:27-37

I got a package in the mail from a dear friend the other week. Along with a box of my favorite Andes mints, Pearl relayed a message of Easter joy and love. She said we were in her prayers. In a great display of humor, she said that with the extra time at home, surely our house would be organized and spotless. (She knows of the non-adult inhabitants: two kids and two large dogs, all who track in dirt and chaos daily.) I laughed out loud, stepped over a remote-controlled truck, and unwrapped a candy. How I needed her gift of prayer, care, and encouragement in that moment – plus the chocolate!

In today’s Epistle reading, Paul writes to his friends in the Christian community in northern Greece: “How can we thank God enough for you in return for all the joy that we feel before our God because of you?” Paul and his friends had been separated from their Thessalonian brothers and sisters in Christ for quite some time, and they could not get back to visit. The Thessalonians had experienced resistance and persecution in being church together. There had been hard days, and more strenuous times were ahead. The apostle Paul sent them beautiful words of prayer, care, and encouragement – plus his friend Timothy to check on them…all reminders of abiding God’s love.

The gifts of prayer, care, and encouragement helped sustain the early church in trying times, and these same reminders of God’s love can help us today, until we can meet again face to face. Let’s continue to support one another, as God continues to abide with us.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What words of encouragement keep you going?

• Who has brought you joy lately?

Daily Challenge

Send a note of encouragement to someone who brings you great joy.

The toxicity of tension - May 7

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 50; PM 114, 115; Exod. 34:1-17; 1 Thess. 2:13-20; Matt. 5:21-26

Tension happens in relationships, especially during times of stress. We let off our emotional steam in the direction of those we care about and trust. If you have others living in close proximity right now, perhaps “Operation Tension Mitigation” has been the name of your family dynamic of late. Rather than diffusing stress and moving on with the next project of the day, Jesus challenges us to go further. He calls us today to total reconciliation.

If someone commits murder or violence, judgment is inevitable. However, Jesus takes it one step further: anger, too, will bring judgment, so he says to drop everything and make amends. Jesus knows how divisive and toxic resentment can be, infiltrating intimacy with weeds of irritability. He wants his followers to live fully into the spirit of God’s law – and not just the word of it. In order to give freely of ourselves to God, Jesus knows that we must be unencumbered by darkness and anger.

Though we are in the Easter season and basking in the joy of the Risen Christ, sometimes reconciliation is easier said than done -- especially in times of duress. Surely Jesus’ disciples wrestled with this teaching, too. Reconciliation still can be a goal we continue to work toward… like a habit we work to cultivate. It can make this time of isolation and quarantine less lonely, and much more joyful. Today, take a step toward building a bridge with a brother or sister, spouse or friend…because we are already forgiven by God.  

Alleluia and thanks be to God!

Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• How severe a judge are you upon others? How severely do you judge yourself?

• What are your barriers to reconciliation with a loved one?

Daily Challenge

Pray for someone with whom you feel tension and separation. What other steps are you called to make toward reconciliation?

“I have come not to abolish but to fulfil the law” - May 6

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 119:49-72; PM Psalm 49, [53]; Exod. 33:1-23; 1 Thess. 2:1-12; Matt. 5:17-20

Whether we intend it or not, our actions tell a story about what we believe – and influence those around us. That was demonstrated clearly in the sermons preached by three of our Saint Stephen’s high school seniors this past Sunday. The love, guidance, and support they have witnessed in this parish have shaped them in meaningful ways along their paths as Christians.

In our gospel reading from Matthew, Jesus is in the midst of what we call the Sermon on the Mount. He is teaching his disciples and all those gathering around him. Today he is driving home the point that his followers do, and will continue to, lead by example. Their actions point to their beliefs…and so Jesus takes the time to name how influential they can be. And what guides the example they are to set? The Law provides that framework – the rules set forth by God, beginning with the commandments God laid out to Moses upon the mountain. The power and example displayed by Jesus rolls up under that framework, too, for Jesus is a fulfillment of scripture, not a presentation of a new way. Jesus knows that he, too, leads by example.

What is the example you are setting, and what is the framework you are leaning upon? What parts of your framework are strong? What parts need to be reinforced?

— Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• What is the example you hope to set today?

• What or who do you need to support you?

Daily Challenge

Revisit the catechism (The Outline of Faith, beginning on page 845 in the Book of Common Prayer). What parts of our Christian doctrine bolster the example you hope to set?

Trouble with gold - May 5

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalm 45; PM Psalms 47, 48; Exod. 32:21-34; 1 Thess. 1:1-10; Matt. 5:11-16

The other day on PBS I watched an historical exploration of the California Gold Rush in the 1850s. Isaac Baker journaled about his “exotic time in California”. He went westward to strike it rich. Panning for gold was no easy task: leaning over a trickling brook, panning 6-7 days a week from sun-up to sun-down, and earning less than $6 per day (not quite $200 today). Baker observed that these throngs of people, who came from all over the world to make their fortune, were bawdy, reckless, and wild. His time as a goldminer was short-lived; he tried his hand at photography, for which he was better known, and then moved back East.

We have been reading in Exodus of Moses’ time upon Mount Sinai with God. As he descended the mountain, Moses found a bunch of revelry going on in the camp and saw them dancing around a false idol: the golden calf. Aaron, who had been left in charge, was confronted by his brother Moses: “What did this people do to you that you have brought so great a sin upon them?”

The people had survived exile and the wilderness with God’s protection and Moses’ leadership, but they had grown restless. They doubted if Moses would return and if God was truly faithful to them. They wanted new gods to lead the way. Aaron was not the best of leaders in that moment; he tossed their gold pieces into the fire – and voila! A golden calf emerged. Moses was raging and sought to bring order to the chaos. He didn’t have the latitude of Isaac Baker, changing roles upon seeing the degradation of goldminers. No, Moses was stuck leading this stiff-necked people and appealed to God to atone for their sins.

We humans don’t show the best versions of ourselves when we are exhausted, lonely, and desperate. Here we sit in 2020, waiting in uncertainty, like the Israelites at the bottom of Mount Sinai. When can we resume our normal routes and in-person connections? This lesson from Exodus invites me to reflect on what it means to trust in God’s faithfulness right now, when it is hard to be patient. I am reminded to be generous to others, gentle upon myself, and slow to judge in this time of stress. Today, let us push against the urge to turn toward empty idols for transitory comfort, and instead, stay focused on the message of light and life put forth in the hope of God.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• If you were in Aaron’s position, what would you have done?

• Who encourages you to trust in God when times get hard?

Daily Challenge

Name a frustration that you feel today. Through prayer or quiet time, invite God’s message of light and life to shine upon that problem. What promise lies in the midst of this hardship?

Being open to receive God’s blessing - May 4

Today’s Readings:  AM Psalms 41, 52; PM Psalm 44; Exod. 32:1-20; Col 3:18-4:6-18; Matt. 5:1-10

Westina Mathews, adjunct professor at General Theological Seminary, served as a spiritual shepherd for a group of about 20 people via ZOOM on Saturday morning. We sat at our own homes, in front of computers, and opened ourselves up for reflection, prayer, and gratitude, guided by writings of the late Fred Rogers. It was a lovely and beautiful spiritual direction session in a group setting.

One of the questions considered was how we are simultaneously givers and receivers, and how we can be both today. One person shared the cycle that you may have experienced: in connecting and giving to others, she has received so much joy. I am reminded of the beatitude we hear today: “Blessed are the merciful, for they will receive mercy.” Similarly, in forgiving, we are forgiven; in welcoming, we are welcomed. So often, the action we are doing for others becomes a gift for us, too. The opportunity for us is to pay attention to our interactions, so that we may receive and acknowledge that joy.

This day, the beatitudes strike me as just the right words we need to hear, as salve to bind up our exhaustion; as cool water to refresh us. Let us breathe deeply, sit down, and receive the blessings that Jesus is sharing with us.

-- Katherine+

Questions for Reflection

• Which beatitude do you most need to hear today?

• What blessing of hope is missing for you?

Daily Challenge

Meditate upon the beatitudes. Practice being attentive and engaged with moments of blessing and gratitude today. Tell one person about the appreciation you feel.

Are you up for a little adventure too? - May 2

Today’s Readings: AM Psalm 30, 32; PM Psalm 42, 43: Exod. 25:1–22; Col. 3:1–17; Matt. 4:18–25

“Immediately they left their nets and followed him.” They didn’t come up with a three-year plan of how they were going to start being more faithful. They didn’t go back and convince their friends that they needed to go a different way. Matthew puts the emphasis on ‘immediately.’ There is a sense of urgency in the text, certainly expediency.

I have always wondered what Simon Peter and Andrew saw or witnessed that morning that was so remarkable that they could leave behind everything that made their lives secure. It happens so quickly that they don’t even return home. It should be fair to assume that their loved ones and family were dependent on their livelihood as fishermen, so if they are going to abandon their security and wellbeing, it must have been pretty extraordinary.

Did Simon Peter and Andrew and James and John find newfound freedom when they left everything else behind? I am quite confident that our corporate understanding of the faith, as passed down in tradition, does not suggest that we abandon our families or loved ones, but we might have to abandon the things that we hold onto for security.

What are you holding onto that is holding you back from the life-giving way of Jesus? Is it the refusal to go to church until we can go in person? Or resentment that feels so good to hold onto or makes you feel justified towards that person who wronged you years ago? When the disciples followed Jesus they went out around all of Galilee, preaching, and healing, all throughout. Matthew concludes this passage suggesting that what the disciples experienced was far greater than what they would have if they had reminded behind. Are you up for a little adventure too?

- John+

Questions for Self-Reflection

• What helps you feel safe and secure? What is the relationship of this to your faith? What could your ‘nets’ be?

Daily Challenge

• Think of something that you feel compelled or called to do but have yet to. Today is the day. No procrastinating!